MM 315: When Kindness Backfires
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MM 315: When Kindness Backfires

Stop trying to be the family punching bag. Chronic people-pleasing invites manipulation, drains your energy, and kills real respect. In this quick Microcast Monday, Patrick lays out why ‘nice’ shouldn’t mean “walk all over me,” how to spot subtle guilt tactics, and three boundary lines you can start using today.

Criminal Justice Evolution
June 16, 2025


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Creators and Guests

Patrick Fitzgibbons
Host
Patrick Fitzgibbons
Patrick Fitzgibbons is a retired Police Commander and former Army Paratrooper with the 82nd Airborne Division. He is now a Program Lead for FHE Health in their Shatterproof Program for First Responders located in Deerfield Beach, Florida. He is passionate about helping first responders who are struggling, and he also sought treatment for his struggles. He holds advanced degrees in organizational leadership and business, and is currently studying to become a licensed mental health clinician in the State of Florida. Patrick also speaks to first responder organizations about health and wellness for personnel.